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How to Win Friends Mini Series

Welcome to the How to Win Friends mini series. These book study and interview episodes (beginning on episode 151) are all about how to positively impact those around you. We are in a constant state of influencing others, whether you realize it or not, so finding ways to lead well and point others to Christ is what we’ll be discussing over the next several episodes. Hear us discuss Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age.”

We talk about practical, actionable ways to develop the soft skills needed to leave a great impression, have a positive impact, and lead others well. This mini series begins on episode 151 of the Witty & Gritty podcast. Click the affiliate button below to get your copy of Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age.”

Part 1: Essentials of Engagement

In episode 151, “How to Develop Soft Skills”, we discuss the importance of watching the words you use and how you speak to others. Your voice has a significant impact on those around you, so implementing the Biblical truths from this episode will help you grow tremendously.

In episode 152, “Speaking Life Into Others”, we discuss the best ways to affirm the good that people are doing. We give specific examples on how and why the way we talk to others matters.

In episode 153, “Why Core Connection Matters”, we discuss the importance of finding common ground in order to build a foundation of growth. Connecting with others on a deeper level will increase value in relationships and help you move towards your goals.

Part 2: Six Ways to Make a Lasting Impression

In episode 154, “Why Others’ Interests Matter”, we discuss why it’s important to pay attention to the interests of others. Through others’ passions and hobbies, we can connect on a deeper level while being others-focused.

In episode 155, “The Power of Smiling”, we talk about why a smile can have such a big impact on those around you. Genuinely smiling when connecting with others will better your relationships.

In episode 156, “How to Memorize Names”, we talk about tips on ways to remember people’s names better and more effectively. Hear how to have less awkward conversations when you can’t remember someone’s name, or not sure what to call them.

In episode 157, “Become a Better Listener”, we discuss how listening longer and more intently can further relationships. Learn how to become a better listener while knowing where to go when you need to be heard as well.

In episode 158, “Discuss What Matters”, we talk about having deeper conversations to find the true interests and motivations of others. Knowing this information will help you make better decisions and know when boundaries need to be set in place.

In episode 159, “Leave Others Better”, we talk about the importance of leaving any situation better than you found it. We give simple ways to do this in your daily life along with how to help others around you.

Part 3: How to Merit and Maintain Others’ Trust

In episode 160, “Collaborative and Not Combative”, we talk about problem solving even when perspectives and opinions are different. Learn how to work as a team towards a common goal all while maintaining great relationships.

In episode 161, “Be Nice and Say You’re Sorry”, we discuss how to apologize humbly, and begin interactions in a friendly way. Learn how to approach hot topics in a way that won’t burn your relationships.

In episode 162, “Create a Culture of Humility”, we talk about how to connect with others in a way that is relatable and produces a climate of team culture. Growing positive relationships takes connectedness and being humble in the victories.

In episode 163, “Extending Grace in Mistakes”, we discuss how to use empathy and appealing to noble motives to help others grow from errors made. We all need forgiveness and grace, and this episode helps you through those tough conversations. 

In episode 164, “Why Your Story Matters”, we challenge you to share your journey in a way that helps people grow. Learn how to help the whole tide rise by becoming part of a bigger story.

Part 4: How to Lead Change Without Resistance or Resentment

In episode 165, “Lead with Empathy”, we discuss how to step into a leadership role in a positive way. Learn how to approach tough topics while creating a safe, open space for those you lead. 

In episode 166, “How to Call Out Mistakes”, we discuss strategies on how to help someone when they’ve messed up. Learn how to approach and guide them to a better choice next time, all while maintaining a positive relationship.

In episode 167, “How to Teach Through Failure”, we discuss the concept of failing forward, and how to encourage others through tough challenges. Learn how to help others save face and leverage situations for a teachable moments.

In episode 168, “Help Others Envision Growth”, we discuss how to help others see their full potential while giving them the next steps forward. Learn how to inspire those around you to step into their God-given role here on Earth.

Interviews for the How to Win Friends Mini Series

In episode 169, “How to Grow Leaders”, we interview Lonnie Pollard, a team building expert, and talk about how to grow leaders, face adversity, and build strong teams. We discuss systems and strategies that work for any team.

In episode 170, “Jesus is Your Business with Lauren Burks”, we interview Lauren who talks about the mindset shift of how your business is a platform to tell others about Jesus. Hear how Lauren ties in God throughout her business in a way that is truly impacting lives.

In episode 171, “Influence Through Forgiveness with Shelby Houston”, we interview Shelby Houston, daughter of fallen Officer Richard Houston, who shares about the death of her father, how we’re called to forgive, and her path to tell others about Jesus.

We hope you enjoy How to Win Friends mini series, because we had a blast creating it! We pray that through this mini series we are all able to become our best selves to further the kingdom. It’s not always easy, but we can do it through God’s strength. Follow the party over on IG and Pinterest where you can see what we’re up to! Click the affiliate button below to get your copy of Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to Win Friends in the Digital Age.”

Busy Christian Mom

Brooke Collier

I coach busy Christian moms to thrive in life by teaching them how to prioritize their relationship with God.