We are finishing up our Enneagram and Relationships mini series featuring the book “The Path Between Us” (affiliate link). We bring in Enneagram life coach expert, Callie Ammons, to talk about Enneagram subtypes for 2s, 3s, & 4s. Callie’s three part interview is split up over the triads (8s, 9s, 1s in episode 74, 2s, 3s, 4s in episode 75, & 5s, 6s, 7s in episode 76).
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Callie is an Enneagram life coach based out of Colorado, and she’s passionate about helping people grow. Bonus, this gal loves Jesus! Hear her wisdom about Enneagram subtypes, what they look like, and how they operate in different situations.
Subtypes are variations of each Enneagram personality type. There are three subtypes to each Enneagram number: the Social Subtype, the One to One Subtype, & the Self Preservation Subtype. Here’s how these subtypes would act in a social setting:
- Social Subtype: Walks into a party, know the important person is (to them), and wants to win approval from that person.
- One to One Subtype: Walks into a party, wants deep connection or a fun conversation, and seeks that out.
- Self Preservation Subtype: Walks into a party, wants to know the environment first (where’s the food, the bathroom, the place to sit, etc…)
Below, we break down the Enneagram Subtypes to the heart/feeling triad (2s, 3s, & 4s). Remember that if your number doesn’t fall into this category, it’s the number of someone you care about. Play the episode (located above) and see the details below about subtypes.
Subtypes for 2s
- Social Subtype (Ambition): Most adult like and mature out of the 2s. They assert themselves in an authoritative way to win respect of whomever they feel they need to ear respect. This subtype has a lot of friends, and care about connections. They like to spend time and energy with friends.
- One to One Subtype (Aggression): They have intense conversations which makes them feel connected to others. They can pull the natural tendencies from 8s (blunt and strive to assert self to make others feel safe). They care about physical appearance more than other 2s (clothes, body, etc…).
- Self Preservation Subtype (Privilege): They are youthful, playful, and want to connect in order to create a safe environment. They want to feel safe, secure, and wanted; they fear rejection.
Subtypes for 3s
- Social Subtype (Prestige): They are achievement focused, and like to state accomplished to do list in front of people. They are more fearful of a negative appearance, and are sensitive to harsh feedback.
- One to One Subtype (Masculinity): They buy the things that make them look the best, and deeply care about excellence and appearance. They have good taste, are charming, and hyperaware of what they look like.
- Self Preservation Subtype (Security): They are routine focused, and can sometimes slip into being workaholics if they go unchecked. Whatever is their safe space, they put their energy into cultivating that environment.
Subtypes for 4s
- Social Subtype (Shame): They commonly battle with envy, and can often need space. There is a struggle between fitting in and staying unique and true to self.
- One to One Subtype (Competition): They can mistype as an 8 because their passion and expression can be blunt, intense, and vocal. They can feel shameful, competitive, and forceful with their emotions and energy.
- Self Preservation Subtype (Tenacity): They focus on keeping their emotions private because they feel it can be too intense for others. So, this feels like a sacrifice to them by holding in emotions.
Thanks for checking out the show notes for “Enneagram Subtypes for 2s, 3s, & 4s”. Be sure to listen to all three subtype interview sessions with Callie (#74, # 75, & #76). Stay tuned for some amazing insight from this Enneagram life coach.
